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Symptomology

A Post By Bruce Ario

Living in the Lodge was the best place to help me with my symptoms.

There is one major reason for this: the situation was understood. I'm not

saying others could read my mind and tell what my thoughts actually were.

I am saying the Lodge members understood the illness - the need for others,

even strangers, to know your thoughts.

   Lodge members knew that this wasn't healthy. I had a Messiah complex

and I was sure if people could read my mind I could save the world. Some

normal people, artists in particular, walk down this path, but I was extreme,

and my plan wasn't working. I was in dangerous territory. I needed help.

    Lodge members had a code for symptoms: don't enable them but

recognize that are real. Give the guy space. Outside of the Lodge, symptoms

would not be understood at all. I felt like an alien, but inside the Lodge the

situation of having symptoms was tolerated and handled.

 

Comments
Total: 2 Comment(s)
Tim
Bruce I always say lodge members are some of the most understanding and patient people I have ever met. Most people don't know what it's like living in a lodge because, you are introduced to complete strangers with just an interview to let them into your home. They have the best hearts, glad you're there.
Tuesday, August 10, 2021 · reply ·
Bruce D Ario
It's always those with the least in monetary means who have the biggest hearts.
Wednesday, August 11, 2021 · reply ·
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